Michel Quoist
MEET CHRIST AND LIVE!
translated by J. F.
BERNARD
GILL AND MACMILLAN
17.
In the image of GodI asked Jack to come to union headquarters tonight to help me
run off some circulars. I could do it alone, but we're trying to get him
involved. It's a little thing, and the kind of thing I could do for
many of
the other people at work. Why am I doing it?
I think I've made some progress.
It's because I've tried, not
to take the place of others, but to help them take their own proper place;
because I've tried discreetly to edge others towards opportunities to become
involved at their own level. It's become almost a habit for me to try to get
the people around me to give of themselves. That's why I wonder whether it hasn't
become almost too automatic - whether it isn't a refined 'apostolic technique'
rather than a gesture full of meaning, love and faith. Today, I must go back to
the basic reasons for my actions. I must examine, in the light of faith, the
motives for what I do.
I've read a few paragraphs of an article on God. In them, I
discovered something that had never occurred to me. The Lord spoke to me
through his doctrine, lighting up my life at the very moment when I was about
to forget to join myself to him in faith.
God is not alone. If he were, he would be incredibly
self-centered. But he is three persons -
three persons so intimately united that
they are one God.
To love means to forget oneself entirely for the sake of
another. It means to give oneself totally and freely in order to enrich another
and to become one with him.
In the Trinity, each of the three persons tends wholly
towards the others. Each of them is wholly a relationship with respect to the
others - a 'subsistent relationship', the theologians
call it. It is in that sense
that God 'is' love.
'All I have is yours and all you have is mine'
(John 17: 10).
'The Father and I are one' (John
10: 30).
'You will know for sure that the Father is in me and I am
Each person in the Trinity is
total giving,
total relationship,
total love.
To put it in human terms, we might say that if the persons of the Trinity ceased to love, they would cease to exist.
Now, God has created man in his image-which means, among
other things, that he created man in such a way as to be able to give himself
and to exist in relationship to his brothers. Thus, man can
fulfil himself only in giving himself and
in loving through individual and collective relationships.
We should become what we are. We should release the image of
God that is within us; we should perfect it little by little as the sculptor
gradually draws from his marble the design which he has conceived.
Man can 'be' only by forgetting himself entirely in order to tend
wholly towards others.
Man can 'be' only by being wholly
The more I forget myself to give myself to others,
the more I
lose myself to find others,
the more I release myself to reach out to others,
All that tends towards others is life.
All that tends towards
myself is death.
When I help others to forget themselves in order to give
themselves, I am helping them to develop the image of God in them. I am helping
them to 'be'.
There are no 'little things' when it comes to giving. The
smallest gesture towards others, even at the purely
material level, is a step forward in the development of one' s
being. We learn to give by giving.
If we have the opportunity to give in our everyday lives, it is
because the Lord offers such opportunities so that we may grow.
When I am asked
not to do something, but to make someone else do something;
not to give, but to help someone else to give;
not to establish a personal relationship with someone, but to
help someone else to establish relationships in the natural groups to which he
belongs,
it is in order to take him out of himself and help him become a
man-a man such as God has planned from all eternity.
'This is my commandment: love one another as I have
Who am I, lord?
Why am I dissatisfied?
Why do I feel as though I am on a journey, always moving?
Why do
I feel I'm not whole, stable, certain, secure,
so that I want to feel sure of myself and not have to struggle?
There is in me the image of God which I must freely perfect. bit
by bit, in the midst of my daily life.
I am in the process of becoming;
and so are those around me,
and all of mankind as it moves painfully towards unity.
I worship you, God, who are pure gift, pure love.
I know you as my all and as my end.
Let my whole life, Lord, be a gift.
Let me know that other men are not strangers, but my brothers,
for everything that separates us is a step backward,
and
everything that joins us is a step forward;
everything that turns me to myself
is a halt in my growth and an exercise in non-being;
and everything I give is a step towards fulfillment and an
exercise in being.
With you watching me, Lord, I will go out to meet others. I will be the one who asks them to give themselves; and thus I will do them the greatest possible service, for I will be helping them to become 'the image of God' - gods, in your Son Jesus Christ.